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Evin

If you call a guy a bitch, it means something different.

21 years old

Male

About Me

I'm officially 20 and a young adult. I'm no longer a teenager. I've always been the youngest one amongst my peers, so it'll be different being 20 like the rest of them. I'll miss being an individual and unique to my other friends, probably because I'm an attention whore and I'm an only child. It is because of this love for attention that I will be auditioning for MTV's The Real World. Next year, when I turn 21, I will be auditioning for Big Brother as well.

I still really have no idea what I really want to do. Sure, I am going to be a English teacher in high school but eventually I'm looking to continue to go to school after a few years to get a Masters in Education and eventually a Ph.D. in English Literature.

I'm also an ESTJ. ESTJs are take-charge people. They have such a clear vision of the way that things should be, that they naturally step into leadership roles. They are self-confident and aggressive. They are extremely talented at devising systems and plans for action, and at being able to see what steps need to be taken to complete a specific task. They can sometimes be very demanding and critical, because they have such strongly held beliefs, and are likely to express themselves without reserve if they feel someone isn't meeting their standards. But at least their expressions can be taken at face-value, because the ESTJ is extremely straight-forward and honest.

ESTJ enjoys interacting with people, and likes to have fun. ESTJs can be very boisterous and fun at social events, especially activities which are focused on the family, community, or work.

I believe that the journey of finding masculinity is one of the most important journeys in a guy's lifetime. For the first time in my life, I'm discovering who I am in relation to God and my friends. The quest for manhood and spirituality is meant to be experienced together. Recently in college, I've begun creating relationships with other guys -- relationships that I've never encountered before. It gets me excited to watch what I'm going to be doing in the next few years with friends by my side.

I'm one of the "most real-est" people you will ever meet. I speak my mind and I love doing it. I also love to argue and hear other's opinions about controversial topics, both theological and values-based.

If you want an honest opinion, just ask me. If you want the friend stock answer, go ask someone else.

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