I love Wes, babies, sloths, and all things Icelandic.
ADAM W.
BLYTHE F.
BRAD S.
BRYCE W.
DANIEL W.
EMILY J.
JENNA W.
JOSH P.
KAITLYN P.
KRIS L.
KRIS M.
SHANI B.
WESLEY B.
NovemberNov 2 Monday Mon 09
This update is a tribute to my most favorite babies. A couple weekends ago we went with the Fikes to St. Andrew's Abbey. We love that monastery. Every time we go, there is something seasonal to appreciate. The first time we went in the midst of cherry blossoms. Then, we went with Adam and Taylor and the place was covered in fresh cotton. This year, we got to eat fresh apples from the orchard. Here's Hero and Mary indulging in sweet apples:






Then on Halloween, Wes and I went with my baby brother Adham and his mom for trick or treating. Adham was a tiger, Wes was a porpoise, and I was a sloth. Unfortunately, there were no other trick or treaters. Even though he only speaks Arabic, he kinda got the hang of it. Afterwards we took him to the Harvest Festival at New Hope, where he was deathly afraid of his idol, Elmo.






This thursday, Wes and I get to see our baby's first ultra sound and hear his/her heartbeat. I am almost 8 weeks along. I thought I was skipping the morning sickness part, but alas, this past week has been nothing but nausea. I also think I might be coming down with the flu, even though I got my H1N1 vaccine last friday. Aye aye.
OctoberOct 21 Wednesday Wed 09
Time to bring back the blog!

Wes and I just found out we are pregnant. I will be 6 weeks tomorrow. Which means, it wasn't quite a honeymoon baby but it was close. I am due June 17, 2010, about 1 week after my last set of finals at UCLA! We should be able to find out the sex of the baby in late January. This is going to be a big deal for us, because, as many of you know, I carry a recessive sex linked X chromosome disorder called hemophilia. As a classic sex-linked disease, the way it works is that our male babies have a 50% of getting full-blown hemophilia, while our female babies have a 50% chance of being carriers like me. Hemophilia affects the blood's ability to clot. While there's no cure, it can be treated with continuous infusions of the clotting factor. See here, the classic example that you learn in 10th grade biology class:

Anyways, while I'm still really early, I've thoroughly been enjoying pregnancy. I'm lucky that I haven't been too sick yet. Hopefully it stays that way. My biggest obstacles right now are school, work, and avoiding the swine flu... I also have to keep my Ulcerative Colitis at bay, which has been easy so far. My white blood count was really low right before I found out I was pregnant, so I had to reduce my immune-modifying medicine by half. This turned out good, since, it's not really recommended for pregnant women to take this medicine, anyway. I've been on a half-dose for about a month and have not got a relapse yet...
Some other exciting news, although not as exciting, is that Wes and I just moved to a cute guest house. It's tiny, but we love it. It has it's own yard (needs some work), and it's in walking distance to Fresh And Easy, Pavillions/ Borders plaza, and the Regal plaza. (We refer to this as the "hubub of town" or "downtown Simi...") Ok, but really, It is also about two blocks away from Wes' work. And, thanks to Kirby, Wes has been working at Clover. Sounds like it's been fun and we have been blessed financially. It's been a struggle getting through summer after Wes' brother, Dustin, passed away. But God is good to us, although he takes, we have to recognize that he also gives.
If I have nothing else to update about, you can at least look forward to baby updates!
AugustAug 4 Tuesday Tue 09


back from Iceland.
We made this video from our travels. Basically, just watch us walk around the most amazing city in the world while Wes eats strange foods and drinks strange beers with our new Icelandic friends. More blogging to come...
JuneJun 10 Wednesday Wed 09
MayMay 23 Saturday Sat 09
Today, I was running late for work and my water bottle wasn't clean. Really thirsty, I grabbed an old Gatorade from back when I had to have all of those colonoscopies. I was obviously desperate, because drinking these things are torture (I associate them with my starvation "clear liquids" diet while violently "cleansing" my colon in preparation for invading procedures). Anyways, they are so damn hard to open.
I spent my entire 15 minute car ride trying to open the Gatorade bottle without getting in an accident. (Failed in Gatorade mission, succeeded in avoiding car accident). When I arrived to work, I started my session by trying to multitask between conversing with my twelve year old autistic client and opening my Gatorade. After awhile, I asked him to open it for me and he just stared at me, drooled a little bit, then he told me "Jeans... I wear jeans."
At this point, I decided to venture to the park with my twelve year old, all the while I was banging my Gatorade on the sidewalk, smashing it into poles, and twisting with full fierce. (To the outside observer, I probably looked like the one challenged with autism). I was THIRSTY! The skin between my thumb and pointer finger was chaffed with such determination. I called Kaitlyn to meet me at the park so she could open it for me, but she was still 100 miles north of Los Angeles on her way home from Chico.
So I arrived at the park, where little kids stared in awe as I smashed my Gatorade against the playground equipment. This was no longer a battle against dehydration... (there was actually a drinking fountain at the park, AND, I could have easily brought water from my client's house.) No, this was a battle against Gatorade itself. Finally, after a cumulative hour of struggle, I succeeded! The cap loosened, I twisted it off, and I drank my Gatorade.
So why do they make Gatorade so freaking hard to open?
AprilApr 28 Tuesday Tue 09
I finally invested in some reusable snackbags from "greenstreetbags" on Etsy.com. The set came with one large sandwich-sized baggie and two smaller ones for snacks like cheerios, sliced apples, carrots, cheese and crackers, you name it! They are made with cotton, close with velcro, and are lined with water proof nylon which makes it easy to pack even wet snacks like strawberries! I LOVE them! If you are anything like me and spend too much time on ziplocks or care at all about the environment, you should definitely consider these beauties.
AprilApr 13 Monday Mon 09
Today is a productive day for me. I bought new "sunnies" (that's Australian for sunglasses), I learned about Alexis de Tocqueville, who is, so far, my favorite social classical theorist, and I found cute hair pins for my wedding hair style! And hey, it's not even noon yet!
AprilApr 10 Friday Fri 09
Easter Season!
& Happy Passover! My mom makes the best matzo ball soup. Usually she makes a huge cauldron, and it's probably the one food I'm willing to eat leftovers of for days because it's that good. Feel free to come part take, we're on day 3 of Passover.
I probably shouldn't include Scandinavian nonsense in my holy Easter post but, hey, I don't blog very often. Next weekend marks the 3rd Scandinavian Festival we will attend at Cal Lutheran University.
Year one: Find and purchase authentic knit had made from old Norwegian man with long beard. (Accomplished).
Year two: Find and purchase "Lil Icelander" onesie for future baby Bjorn. (Failed).
Year three: Meet a troll/ gnome. (In Progress).
MarchMar 19 Thursday Thu 09
Finally done with finals! I finished my Unequal Education final today! I turned my Cities of Europe Paper in yesterday! I took my Economy and and Society final last week! And turned in my Special Education Paper last week! HALLELUJAH.
Yesterday was the weirdest day. Jenna and I had to turn in our papers at 8 am sharp (in Los Angeles, mind you). I didn't feel the least bit tired when I woke up at 5:45 to leave by 6:30. By the time we were driving back home around 9, I was ready to crash. I took a nap and had a really bizarre dream. I dreamt I was back at school, waiting for Jenna to finish her final. My phone kept ringing but I couldn't get it out of my pocket for some reason. When I finally checked my messages, I had a call from a lady in Iceland named Inglovar Something-dottir. Then I found Jenna and we went to the car and for some reason my car had three clocks, all with different times. I asked Jenna what time it was but she was really out of breath, like she had asthma, and couldn't tell me. Then she finally said it was almost 1:00 and I was going to be late for work. Hmm, I guess its evident what my daily thoughts and stresses consist of: School, Iceland, Work, running out of time, and maybe asthma, too.
Well after work I went to my dad's house to say goodbye. I thought I had escaped without crying, but of course I forgot the meat and produce from his fridge and had to turn around. When I was leaving for the second time he started crying so naturally I did, too. I won't see them until August. Here's a video of my brother watching Sim Sim World (it's the Arabic Sesame Street) and also I am trying to say "Where's Elmo?" in Arabic in case you are wondering.
Adham loves Elmo so much that he tried to steal a little boy's Elmo shoes at the mall.
Well now that I am on spring break, I don't exactly get to relax yet. Aside from having work every single day, I have a million wedding- related stuff to accomplish. I am trying to tell myself that it is fun. I did have fun a couple weekends ago, though. I went to D-land with Wes, Steph, Shani, Jenna, Daniel, and Scott. We are going back again, to Ca-adventure anyways, because we got a "2fer" deal that will expire within 30 days!

FebruaryFeb 23 Monday Mon 09
FebruaryFeb 10 Tuesday Tue 09
JanuaryJan 31 Saturday Sat 09
Cafe Balcony never disappoints me... Well, except when they run out of banana flavor for our banana hot chocolate.
PS. Happy birthday Kadalyn! & Steph a couple days ago! & Hero the day before that! & Wes' mom! & everyone who was ever born at one point in time!
JanuaryJan 12 Monday Mon 09
Last week while driving home from school (tired, hungry, cold, and late for work), Jenna and I got rear-ended. Everything seemed fine and dandy until leaving school today (hot, sick, and tired), I decided to throw my backpack into the trunk to find that the trunk wouldn't close. So we had to empty out my entire overflowing trunk and tie it down with the shoelaces from my ice skates. (Thank goodness we went ice skating last weekend!) Here is a picture from Jenna's blackberry's passenger seat view:

DecemberDec 6 Saturday Sat 08
Okay. Update time.
I am feeling better. I am on steroids again so you better not make me angry! I'm a monster. ;D I can't stop eating but I am also doing a good job of eating healthy. When I am in remission, I pack in the fiber of green leafy vegetables. I have made myself a spinach or baby green salad every day. I also add a fruit or vegetable to practically every meal. (For instance, I put tomato on my bagel, a banana in my cereal or in my ice cream, and I pack my turkey sandwiches with avocado, tomatoes, and baby greens.) For some reason I have been getting way too many frappaccinos from Starbucks, though. And no, I don't add anything healthy to them. Forget the wasted calories- what about the wasted money? Aye.
This upcoming week will conclude my fall semester at school. I finished my final project for one class. Now I have a regular exam and 2 finals to study for. I am pretty sure I will be getting an A, B, and C in my 3 classes. Worst grades I have ever gotten. I am not stressed about this because my goal is to get my degree- not to have a high GPA. I never see myself going to graduate school. It's one thing to be working and living in Simi and attending school in LA, but balancing a disease on top of it all and then adding the whole wedding planning thing sure hasn't helped. For some reason I am quite content right now though. Beats me.
Everything for our wedding seems to be falling into place. We've been getting a lot more done than I thought could be possible. We have also been saving a lot of money. We are in the process of accumulating a "hope chest" that already has quite a few items we will be using when we move into our new apartment. Our plan is to only register at Target- and acquire everything that we don't want from Target by ourselves. We bought a couple of bigger things already, too. YAYYY IKEA! Here is a picture of our new sofa and our new kitchen table:


I went to look at wedding dresses last week with my mom at Pebbles Bridal- but with no luck. They have some nice stuff, and at huge discounts, but the problem is that they are all really high end dresses- so getting a $5,000 for $2,000 doesn't do much for me. I am eyeing designers like Jessica McClintock, and I'm searching for a particular dress that is only $300. I would post it on here but I have to keep it a secret from Wes. So tomorrow I am going with my mom and Wes' mom and hopefully Ashley, too (Dustin's fiance) to Camarillo Bridal. I hope something works out.
Jenna just posted this on my facebook. It is a video about the Icelandic Puffin. Thanks Jenna.
http://news.nationalgeographic.com/news/2008/12/081205-puffins-video-wc.html?source=rss
NovemberNov 26 Wednesday Wed 08
NovemberNov 20 Thursday Thu 08
First of all, I want to remind all of those who don't read Blythe's blog about the up and coming For Uganda event this saturday at 4 pm at the Hensley household. (Call me for directions?) The cost is $5, which will cover your food and go a little bit further in aiding our project. Hope to see you there!
Secondly, today stinks, as it is clear I am experiencing a relapse of UC. I stayed home from school, waited all day for my doctor to call me back and prescribe more steroids, then spent my evening at Kaiser in Woodland Hills. I don't know what the cause of my relapse is- it is about that time that the effects of steroids wear off (stopped taking them a 2 months ago), which I pray isn't the case, because that would mean my new medicine is ineffective and I will have to go to something stronger and comparable to chemotherapy. Or it could be because I caught a tiny cold, and since my medicine is an immune-suppressing drug, I decided not to take it for 4 days to fight off my cold, and that 4 days caused a relapse. I hope this is the case. Then I should be back to normal after a dose of topical steroids... Well I was doing more research and found some new studies that conflict with the leading belief that diet has no effect on UC. As it turns out, a diet high in red meat and sulfur is no good for UC sufferers. Well, I certainly don't eat red meat, at least not often, but the sulfur may have something to do with it. It turns out that most of my favorite foods are rich in sulfur: chocolate, almonds, eggs, broccoli, avocado, spinach, tomatoes, milk, coffee... This is good news, but, I don't know where I'm supposed to get my iron or protein if I can't eat meat OR spinach. Or my vitamin C... that was from tomatoes alone.
NovemberNov 16 Sunday Sun 08
NovemberNov 11 Tuesday Tue 08


I wish I could drop outta school.
NovemberNov 10 Monday Mon 08
I FINALLY ate at Roscoe's Chicken and Waffles tonight. And yes, I got chicken and waffles. We also got to spend time with Adam, and Taylor, and even Zach who I don't know very well! HOORAY!
NovemberNov 2 Sunday Sun 08
Happy Halloween! The theme of this get-together was to dress as your favorite animal (inspired by the film Eagle vs Shark). I hope everyone's Halloween was equally as entertaining!





Shani the Bunny, Danny the Binterong (Asian Bearcat)



Kris the Reindeer, Kaitlyn the Elephant, Chris the Liger