NovemberNov 18 Wednesday Wed 09
In the past 72 hours, I have studied, preached, prayed & counseled (the normal stuff). I have also used a circular saw on soundproofing material, moved cabinets from Lowe's to a home, edited a video, witnessed a fight, done detective work (related to the fight), attended three meetings, prepped for & led two of those meetings, googled "Gotham Christmas," mentored a 4th grader, lined up volunteers and met with a small group. Whew! It's only Wednesday. Maybe a baby girl will be the only thing on my agenda for the rest of the week. Here's hoping.
NovemberNov 16 Monday Mon 09
Proverbs has a lot to say about discipline. Yesterday we did a little compare & contrast study of how the wise and foolish react to discipline. It wasn't the most fun sermon to prepare for but people really seemed to be engaged. I guess we can all relate to discipline. I'm going to share a few verses this week that most spoke to me regarding this.
"He who listens to a life-giving rebuke will be at home among the wise." (Proverbs 15:31). This isn't talking about hateful rebukes. We all get those sometimes. So how do we know that a rebuke is life-giving? My guess is that we usually don't know immediately. The problem is that we usually react immediately. We need to pause before making that call.
What do you consider a rebuke to be? Life-draining? Annoying? Something that causes you to send a rebuke back their way? Or do you view it as something that can give you life?
NovemberNov 14 Saturday Sat 09
My friend, Jack, is going to share a really cool thing that has happened in his life during my sermon tomorrow. I hope it impacts you as much as it has me.
NovemberNov 11 Wednesday Wed 09
I put together a video about 1 1/2 years ago to tell the story of Project Elf. The online version got messed up, and they asked me to get it back up, so I did last night. If you haven't seen it, it's worth a look. Terri, who you'll see on the video, is part of our church. Watch video.
NovemberNov 9 Monday Mon 09
Bob Muzikowski often jogged past the kids of Cabrini Green - kids who were usually neglected, abused or ignored by the outside world. But one day he had an idea. Or maybe he just heard God's idea. "What if he transformed a field, that had become an urban wasteland, into a baseball diamond for kids?" That idea led to a string of events that would drastically change the lives of kids in need of care, professionals in need of service, entire communities, and his own family. "Safe at Home" tells Muzikowski's lifelong journey. The first half of the book tells of his remarkable childhood (he had more experiences, both good and bad, than most of us have in a lifetime). By looking at the front cover of the book, and knowing a bit about it, I knew things in his life were going to get better, but it seemed impossible as I was reading it. He was far from being a Godly young man. His turn-around is very inspiring, and he gives credit to the right source.
If you have interest in Godly life transformation, finding purpose in life, leading volunteers, baseball, addiction recovery, stewardship issues, or urban, racial & socio-economic issues, I highly recommend this read. It's really fun to read, it's very well written, and it will challenge you to the core.
Two additional notes:
1. As an added note, our friends at By the Hand Club for Kids know Bob and he is the real deal.
2. Keanau Reeves and a number of people behind the movie "Hardball" punked Bob, the coaches & the community in the making of that film. They were horrendous. I might think about boycotting his movies, but he's never had one worth watching, so it's not an issue. ha ha.
NovemberNov 8 Sunday Sun 09
I tried to pick a hobby to pick on my sermon for an illustration that people wouldn't identify with. So I chose Turtle Racing. So I was quite surprised when three college students found me afterwards and told me that I'd hit too close to home for one of them. Apparently, he and his brother "trained" turtles for their town's annual turtle race each year. I asked him how they trained the turtles & he said, "I don't know. We really weren't cause if we did anything, they'd just go into their shell, but we thought we were doing something." Anyway, it was pretty funny. I guess no illustration is safe.
NovemberNov 7 Saturday Sat 09
Tomorrow we'll be looking at Proverbs and asking, "How can we be wise?" While studying, I was reminded of a fun film project we once did with students. We blindfolded & dropped them off in the middle of 400 acres of dense woods. Each team had a cameraman and one adult whom could be asked one question (regarding directions) every 10 minutes. We explored what happens when we don't ask the best questions. It was lots of fun. Watch videos here.
Tomorrow we'll be looking at Proverbs and asking, "How can we be wise?" While studying, I was reminded of a fun film project we once did with students. We blindfolded & dropped them off in the middle of 400 acres of dense woods. Each team had a cameraman and one adult whom could be asked one question (regarding directions) every 10 minutes. We explored what happens when we don't ask the best questions. It was lots of fun. Watch videos here.
NovemberNov 5 Thursday Thu 09
I just spent 90 minutes reading a book about Caesar, in preparation for an upcoming sermon. I can't imagine spending my life scheming and fighting to stay alive and rule the world. Crazy. My sermon isn't until December 6 but we have a baby coming between now and then. So my question is, would you like or dislike what I just did. Personally, I liked it. I like to read - especially when it relates to Scripture. And this reading does. Luke wrote, "In those days Caesar Augustus issued a decree..." Learning about Caesars sheds a ton of light on the Christmas story. Can't wait.
OctoberOct 29 Thursday Thu 09
I recently finished reading Gary Hamel's book The Future of Management. He suggests that we have pretty much perfected the management model that Henry Ford and others founded – a top-down management structure. Hamel questions whether that management model is the best model for us now. It served its purpose for a while, but its weakness is that it usually doesn't unleash passion, ownership and creativity from the workforce. It also assumes that the collective wisdom of a few "really smart people" is greater than the collective wisdom of ten, a hundred or ten thousand “normal people.” Hamel shows that this thinking is flawed, by citing research and case studies. He holds up Gore (makers of Gore-Tex), Whole Foods, Google, GM, Toyota, and others as management innovators who have bucked the traditional model - and have done exceedingly well. These companies have flattened the leadership structure. Anyone in their company could have the next big idea. You don’t have to have a big title to be heard. Teams hold each other accountable from within (and no team can afford a weak link). Fringe thought is encouraged. And employees are rewarded for breakthrough performances and contributions to the organization.
While Ford said, “The problem is that every set of hands comes with a brain,” Toyota received 500,000 ideas from their employees last year. Ford has floundered for years. Toyota has remained on top. Hamel tells the stories of several innovative companies, and I thought this was the strongest part of the whole book. Those chapters are full of thought-provoking questions that I’ll ask our team, and practical advice that helps me understand how it all plays out.
If you look around, you’ll notice that in spite of this model’s success, most companies have not adapted new management models. This isn’t surprising. Those with positions of authority risk losing their place of prominence with this model, it feels risky and it costs some resources upfront. Fortunately, Hamel offers some advice on how to impact your organization (whether you are currently on the top or bottom of the food chain). If you think that those only wanting to survive will ultimately not survive, or that the management model of your organization might be based on false assumptions, or that the people in your organization need to be released to contribute more than they ever thought possible, this book is for you. I highly recommend it.
OctoberOct 24 Saturday Sat 09
We were able to get our Day of Serving video online. We couldn't use the great music we used when we showed it on Sunday because of copyright issues. I started to work hard at finding some great music that we could use (that isn't copyrighted) but then realized that I had a hundred other more pressing things to do, so I put some cheesy, free music on there. Now it has more of a TV sitcom feel to it all. Kinda funny.
OctoberOct 19 Monday Mon 09
I got to see the U2 concert last night. I've never been to a huge concert like that, and I'd been waiting for it for 5 or 6 months. They did not disappoint. Their stage set-up actually made OU's football field look small. The stage probably went from one 25 yard line to the other. It was set-up so that they could get close to more fans.
The highlight of the show for me was when Bono sang Amazing Grace, followed by Where the Streets Have (a song they wrote in Ethiopia about a road that mothers walked to bury their children).
The low point of the show was when the drunk guy in front of us raised & swayed both hands (with beer in each hand slopping everywhere).
OctoberOct 17 Saturday Sat 09
Satan corrupts things that were created good. It's what he does. Churches & parents must fight to protect the innocence of children. I'd encourage you to read what Mark Batterson has to say about this.
Read article.
OctoberOct 14 Wednesday Wed 09
Possum: This past Sunday was our church's Day of Serving. We've heard lots of good stories, including one from a couple of guys who have been training for a lifetime to tackle their task. Here it is, written by an eyewitness: Everyone was doing their individual tasks of raking, mowing, and pulling weeds, when there was a loud scream from the nearby carport. Earlene Hart emerged breathlessly proclaiming that there was a possum in the trash can in the car port. Everyone came running to check it out. Sure enough a possum had climbed into a trash can and could not get out. Earlene had been the first to spot it. Luckily we had some possum wranglers on our team. John Burgett and Jack Foreman demonstrated their well honed skill by lassoing the rascally thing. Earlene was saved by the possum wranglers and we were able to complete our day of service task without fear of the savage beast. 'Everyone needs a hero" and Earlene has two of them. Thanks John and Jack. I can almost hear them taunting the possum, "I'll be your huckleberry."
OctoberOct 11 Sunday Sun 09
I spent the morning serving people in need in our city. I was reminded that one of the best ways to connect with people is to serve alongside them. I knew everyone on my team, but I hadn't had the opportunity to do something like this with most of them. It was great to have lots of time visiting as we painted, pulled weeds and raked leaves. I loved getting to get a better glimpse of their hearts. Our team worked hard, were great with the kids there, and did great in interacting with the people we served. I was really surprised when I looked at my watch, as we were working, and realized how quick time had flown by. Time flies when you are having fun, and we were. It was an awesome morning.
OctoberOct 10 Saturday Sat 09
I wonder if there were some lukewarm followers of Jesus who loved to hear his profound teachings, but took off as soon as he started doing the dirty work of ministry (caring for the sick, unclean and unloved). I wonder if some were disappointed that Jesus cut his teaching short, in order to feed the five thousand. I don't know, but I do know that when we serve, we get to experience life to the fullness. We get to experience joy, love, hope, purpose and peace. And when we miss opportunities that God puts in front of us, we miss all of that.
OctoberOct 9 Friday Fri 09
(This is specifically for those coming to Day of Serving.)
My sermon on Sunday will be 2 minutes long.
We can’t understand the Gospel message of Jesus, if we don’t serve. When we serve, we are obeying Jesus. When we obey Jesus, we love Him, and He allows us to know Him more (see John 14:21).
It is crystal clear in the Scriptures that God commands us to care for people in need. It’s one of the reasons that we are having our Day of Serving on Sunday. If you come, I think the following things will happen:
1. You will understand God more.
2. You will obey God’s command to care for others.
3. Your heart will be softened for people.
4. You will enjoy fellowship with each other.
5. You will contribute to this church family, to our community and to the Kingdom of God.
6. You will get a little chilly (so bring a jacket).
Some of you might be unsure about it, and I want to challenge you to pray about where that uncertainty is coming from. Others have experienced the joy of serving like this before and can’t wait, and I want to challenge you to be encouraging & inviting to others.
As for me, I couldn’t fall asleep last night because I kept thinking about the opportunities in front of us, and the families who need some care.
I can’t wait to serve with you at 9:00 AM on Sunday.
OctoberOct 3 Saturday Sat 09
A group of church friends took Dave Ramsey's Financial Peace University last year, and it was very helpful for us. But we hadn't been able to try the smart way of making a bigger purchase (which is a good thing cause we haven't needed to make any). The basic idea...
-Most people finance large purchases which means they pay interest (and often late penalties too). Which means they pay more than the full price.
-The FPU way is to save in advance, instead of spending it on monthly payments with interest, and when you have it, shop around. Tell the stores that you won't need financing and you can give them cash right now, so they should charge you less (cause they won't have to wait to get your money).
With our growing family, we decided months ago that we were going to need a bigger table. I realized that I've actually never spent a dime on dining room furniture, which seemed to make this a little easier. Anyway, we saved & I started shopping around four or five weeks ago. I hadn't had any luck bargaining, but I'd still felt a sense of freedom when I left a store, money still in hand. But yesterday, I tried again with a table that Beth & I really liked. It's sturdy, rounded (fits our space) and will allow us to have our family and some guests around it. It was pre-owned (for 2 days) so the price was already dropped. I had my cell phone calculator help me figure out the cost of the table, chairs & a bench that we wanted. It was quite a bit more than what I had budgeted, so I told him I couldn't do that, but that I didn't need financing and could pay him right there if he could come down on the price to meet my budget. He gave me a store coupon, plus a group discount (never would have thought to ask for this) and it ended up well under our budget. I accepted real quick. We ended up getting it all for about 25% less than the listed price. Yippee!
After he asked if I wanted it delivered, I said, "I'm assuming that will cost something." He said, "Yes."
Me, "No thanks, I can borrow a truck." Him, "How much would you be willing to pay for delivery?" This was funny. His whole approach changed. I'm sure he usually doesn't offer this. Anyway, he came down from $75 to $45, but I still declined - thanks to my great Father-in-law, who lets me borrow his truck.
My name is Brian and I love my wife of 10 years, Beth, our 7 year old boy, 5 year old boy, and recently adopted 4 year old daughter. We DO LIFE with many close family members & friends. Ray Ray (who calls me "White Dad") has graduated college and moved to Arkansas.
I love being with friends, going on dates with Beth, playing baseball & riding bikes with my boys, dancing with my girl, helping people with my small group, creating videos, studying, and playing sports.
I am trying to follow Jesus Christ with my life. I want my life to impact people in this life and the next - I think about that quite a bit.
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Velvet Elvis, Present Future, Philippians, Creating Leaderful Organizations, Simple Church, Blue Like Jazz, The Broker