As self-absorbed as Julia Allison is notorious for being, reading the posts about the one that got away (or rather, the one she let go of) warmed the icicles in my heart a little. I'm rooting for her now because there's nothing like the common need to be loved to establish solidarity among your fellow human beings. (She let go of a really good guy). She is my favorite feminist, go-getter, self-promoting, the-world-is-my-oyster, type of blogger.