How many of us spend half our lives hanging around those that can not get us to where we need to be. Yes, at certain points in our lives we are at stages that it is ok to have friends that are going no where. However, there must come the time when those friends must either fall off or you drop them.

As we mature in life, as we grow, we must also attract the level of friends that can feed the giant that we are becoming. Giants eat giant food, and if this is the case then giants can only hang with giants. In the Bible Goliath was the only one of his kind at the time to be doing what he did. When Goliath fell, the army he fought for ran with fear. If you are a giant and you hang with regular people, when you go through things that are on a giant level, then there will be no one who can understand you.

If you want to see where you are going, just look at the level of people you attract to yourself. If you only attract broke minded and broke physical people then guess what you will be the same. And if you, your not quite as bad off as they are then, in many cases you can not break free of the realm your in, it may be because you are carrying them rather than getting with someone that might be able to assist you in your growth.

Your level of friend ships should not be judged by the mentality the have or if they think like you do, but it should be judged by how they feed the giant that is inside of you. Remember, the giant inside of you or the radical inside of you must be feed by what need.