Here's our complex. The world tells us that we need relationships like we need bread and water. TV, Hollywood, our friends, our parents - tell us we're incomplete without that special someone in our lives. Then we spend ever waking minute planning, dreaming, desiring that relationship that will complete us.

Let me ask you something. If that special someone is looking for the very same thing, aren't you both lacking the very same thing? So how can either person satisfy the need of the other?

Do you know why you're here? Are you happy with who you are in your singleness? Do you feel complete? You should!

God made Adam, and gave him lots to do. He was a busy man, with purpose and a relationship with God. Adam went along from day to day doing his thing, appreciating what he had. Then God looked around and said, "I know what you need Adam, and I've got just the thing. Wait here!". Then Adam got a bit tired, and had a nap....

Adam didn't even see his need for another relationship because he was content with who he was, and with his relationship with God. He was also really busy naming all the animals - to busy for dating... But God knew what he needed, and he provided Adam with a wife. The first marriage relationship ever made.

References to Genesis