We like traditions and customs, but if they are retarded, whatever.

We didn't do the whole "no seeing the bride" before the wedding shit. We slept in the same bed, then rushed off in seperate directions. We did pictures (all but a few) before the wedding, because we wanted to enjoy our frick'n party and drink with our friends and family during cocktail hour. But after the formal photos, we went back to F&M's "Old Main" (we had the ceremony in Nevin Chapel) to do final whatevers before guests arrived. Alyssa and I were making faces and being silly just prior to the ceremony. You can tell my sister, Kate got a kick out of it all.