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    <description><![CDATA[Married.  Happy.  Artsy-like.  I've started reading lots of books lately that I apparently have no intention of finishing.  I like to clean things, like, crazy clean them.  Like, I clean the utensils that clean things.]]></description>
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      <title>Elven</title>
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      <pubDate>Wed, 27 Jun 2007 11:40:49 -0700</pubDate>
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      <title>At Biltmore</title>
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      <pubDate>Thu, 04 Jan 2007 20:09:01 -0800</pubDate>
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      <title>Poem:  "Peter Pringle"</title>
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      <description><![CDATA[Pacing powerfully, Peter Pringle perturbed the pine flooring 'neath his effervescent boots.  He probed his mental faculties, making a point to himself that true reflection depended not on one's emotional inclination, but rather on the will to understand.  He deftly determined not to arrive at 60 and suddenly take stock of his life, having accomplished the task all along the way.]]></description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 20 Oct 2008 18:29:13 -0700</pubDate>
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      <title>Poem:  "Wichard"</title>
      <link>http://virb.com/mandy/posts/text/882266</link>
      <description><![CDATA[Following feathers wisped in wind unruly, Wichard watched for season's end in random acts of beauty.  Having been diagnosed with chronic listlessness, he thought it appropriate, nay poetic, to spend his last days chasing after unattainable glory in the perhaps mundane.]]></description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 20 Oct 2008 18:27:35 -0700</pubDate>
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      <title>Who Should You Vote For?</title>
      <link>http://virb.com/mandy/posts/text/853843</link>
      <description><![CDATA[I'm amazed at how much getting some real information (not via this questionaire at all, really) has changed my vote this time around.  I mean, I've never identified with one party or another.  But I've definitely considered myself a Conservative in the past, based on my classic Christian beliefs.  Now add to that my new-ish environmentalism, belief that universal health care would rock, that there will be <i>no</i> peace in the Middle-East (again, Christian worldview), that it is <i>extremely</i> unlikely we're going to overturn Roe v. Wade (and even if we did, people would continue to have abortions), and a slew of other minor things, and you get me voting for Barack Obama.

<strong><a href="http://www.whoshouldyouvotefor.com">Who should you vote for?</a></strong><br /><table><tr><td>Barack Obama</td><td></td><td></td><td><img src="http://www.whoshouldyouvotefor.com/quizzes/aaaaaa.jpg" border="0" height="15" width="231" /></td><td>33</td></tr><tr><td>John McCain</td><td>-9</td><td><img src="http://www.whoshouldyouvotefor.com/quizzes/dddddd.jpg" border="0" height="15" width="63" /></td><td></td><td></td></tr></table><b>You expected:</b> Barack Obama<br /><b>Your recommendation:</b> Barack Obama<br /><p><b>Party:</b> Democratic<br /><b>Born:</b> 1961, Honolulu, Hawaii<br /><b>Family:</b> wife and two daughters<br /><b>Career:</b> Business International Corporation; NYPIRG; attorney and constitutional law lecturer<br /><b>Political career:</b> Member of the Illinois State Senate from the 13th district, 1997-2004. Incumbent Junior Senator from Illinois since 2005<br /><b>Hot topic:</b> Universal healthcare<br /><b>Did you know?</b> He is the only African American currently serving in the US Senate<br /><b>Supported by:</b> Oprah Winfrey, Eddie Murphy, Will Smith, George Clooney, Halle Berry, Scarlett Johansson, Morgan Freeman, Michael Jordan, Jamie Foxx, Ben Affleck, Matt Damon, Ed Norton, Jennifer Aniston, Zach Braff, John Cleese, Leonard Nimoy and Brooke Shields

On a related note, does <b>ANYBODY</b> know how to find out what other elections are happening this November?  I have yet to find a website that will tell me what else I need to vote for if I live in Anderson, SC.]]></description>
      <pubDate>Tue, 07 Oct 2008 13:26:06 -0700</pubDate>
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      <title>Christian Suffering</title>
      <link>http://virb.com/mandy/posts/text/828987</link>
      <description><![CDATA[People may think that Christians perceive themselves to have no trouble; that once a person "gets saved," life all falls into place.  Where once there was sin, new life is birthed.  Where once there was indecision and angst, now grows decisiveness and peace.  Where once there was suffering and sickness, now there's freedom and health.  All those things are true, sometimes.

Christians are promised suffering, but the modern American church has no clue how to suffer well.  Jesus promised that "In this world you will have trouble.  But take heart!  I have overcome the world"  (John 16:33).  In the Bible we read stories of people rejoicing at being persecuted for their faith.  They were maligned, beaten, thrown in jail, flogged, murdered, put on trial, shipwrecked, stoned, even "sawed in two" (Hebrews 11:36), and they loved it.  "Others were tortured and refused to be released, so that they might gain a better resurrection" (Hebrews 11:35).  When Paul and Silas were put in jail, "[a]bout midnight [they] were praying and singing hymns to God" (Acts 16:25).  They rejoiced not because they were masochists, but because they wanted to fellowship in Christ's sufferings and become closer to him through it.  These heroes of the faith suffered with style, with grace and beauty.  Why don't we do that?

In the past year and four months since we got married my husband and I have been on quite a journey.  For us that fabled first year of marital bliss and delight has been filled with unexplained suffering.  Seven moves, three states, four+ jobs, and innumerable illnesses later, we are settled in our home in South Carolina, trying to make sense of it all.  Have we been persecuted for our faith?  Not in the normal sense, no.  But we have been under tremendous spiritual attack, and we have not suffered well.  At least I haven't.

I used to believe that if I did what I was supposed to--had a dynamic growing relationship with Jesus that bore good fruit--God would reward me with a happy life, full of prosperity and blessing.  There would be no sickness, no financial hardship, no real difficulty.  I have come to believe that that is just not true.  But rather, if I do what I am supposed to, God will reward me with himself.  Happiness, prosperity, and blessing are icing.  But there will be sickness, financial hardship, and many other difficulties.  I don't know what my life is going to look like.  And somehow suffering brings me closer to God.  Right now I don't like that truth, but I believe deep down that it is true.  I'm still battling with almost monthly illness, and I don't know when that is going to stop.  But I believe that Jesus has told me he <i>IS</i> healing me, and past experience tells me that not all healing is instantaneous.  Sometimes it takes time.  So I wait.  And I pray that I learn to suffer well.  And I pray for healing.

<a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Isaiah%2052:13-53:12&version=31">This</a> is how Jesus suffered and was victorious.]]></description>
      <pubDate>Wed, 17 Sep 2008 11:36:02 -0700</pubDate>
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      <title>Why Christians Should Care About Being Green</title>
      <link>http://virb.com/mandy/posts/text/668467</link>
      <description><![CDATA[<b>IT'S NOT EITHER/OR, IT'S BOTH/AND</b>

All the hype surrounding rising oil prices, extreme weather conditions, and food crises around the world has caused the majority of people to begin considering human impact on the earth.  The world community is finally admitting that our industry and daily practices don't exist in a vacuum separate from the air, water, soil, plants, and animals around us.  However, despite the general outcry, numerous groups still refuse to confront the fact that we need to change the way we do things on our planet.  Among them are many Christians. Perhaps they see environmental stewardship as a secular issue, not serving the Christian agenda of reaching the lost; unfortunately for them, this "secular vs. sacred" attitude is untrue and unbiblical.

Being a Christian means following Jesus with our <i>whole</i> selves, not just part or most, but completely.  Jesus said, "[I]f anyone would come after me, he must deny himself and take up his cross and follow me" (Matthew 16:24).  And further, "[I]f anyone comes to me and does not hate his father and mother, his wife and children, his brothers and sisters--yes, even his own life--he cannot be my disciple"  (Luke 14:26).  It is living a life of integrity in every area, having Jesus be Lord of <i>all</i> we are and do.  For Christians, the spiritual implications of forsaking everything in pursuit of Jesus are often more obvious than the tangible implications.  But should our love of God change how we do business, use energy, consume water and other commodities?  <b>YES</b>.

When asked what was the greatest commandment, Jesus replied, " 'Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength.' The second is this:  'Love your neighbor as yourself.'  There is no commandment greater than these"  (Mark 12:30, 31).  Practically living an environmentally friendly, sustainable life on this earth is included in both of these directives.  Here's how:

<b>LOVING GOD</b>

<b>1.  We love God by obeying him.</b>  Jesus said, "If you love me, you will obey what I command"  (John 14:15).  Since Jesus is the Word (John 1:1-18), he has been speaking since the creation of the world.  In the beginning God commanded Adam and Eve to "be fruitful and increase in number; fill the earth and subdue it.  Rule over the fish of the sea and the birds of the air and over every living creature that moves on the ground" (Genesis 1:28).  He "took the man and put him in the Garden of Eden to work it and <i>take care of it</i>"  (Genesis 2:15, emphasis added). It is important to note that this command of ruling the earth and taking care of it is given <i>before</i> the Law was given.  Some Christians will argue that because we are under a new covenant in Christ we can ignore, as it were, much of the Old Testament commands.  However, just as Paul points out that we have the right to be children of God because of Abraham's <i>faith</i>--faith that was credited to him as righteousness before he received the sign of circumcision and the law was given to Israel  (Romans 4:9-11)--we have the responsibility to fulfill the Creation Mandate (i.e. steward the earth) because it was also given before the Law.  

As believers we must steward that which we have been given, individually and corporately, spiritually and physically.  The Parable of the Talents (Matthew 25:14-30) shows three servants entrusted with their master's money; two invest it and get a good return, whereas one digs a hole in the ground to hide and save it because he is afraid of his master.  We have done much worse than just hiding and saving the earth we have been entrusted with--we have polluted it and destroyed much of it through industry and waste.  And even as we see the consequences of our mistakes, we don't stop and seek to fix the situation.  No, we just barrel on ahead and think, "Well, Jesus is coming back and going to destroy the whole thing anyway."  That's disgusting!

<b>2.  We love God by loving and respecting what he does.</b>  After making the heavens and the earth, 

<i>"God saw all that he had made, and [he declared that] it was very good....  Now the LORD God had planted a garden in the east, in Eden, and there he put the man he had formed.  And the LORD God made all kinds of trees grow out of the ground--trees that were pleasing to the eye and good for food..."  (Genesis 1:31; 2:8, 9).</i>

God loves his creation; he calls it good and pleasing.  Why would we destroy, disregard, and consider unimportant that which he considers good and gave to us as a gift?  I am ashamed that I know SO few believers (Christians) who are convicted about living a green life.  Rather it's the unbelievers who are convinced that we need to change the way we live on the earth.  Not that Christians should shift our focus completely and belittle the importance of people's spiritual lives, absolutely not.  But we <i>can</i> fulfill the Creation Mandate at the same time as the Great Commission  (Matthew 28:19, 20)!  In fact, "teaching [people] to obey everything [Jesus] has commanded [us]" surely includes what he teaches in the other 62 books of the Bible, especially some of the very first commandments he gave to man!

<b>LOVING OTHERS</b>

<b>We love others by fulfilling the Great Commission.</b>  Before Jesus was taken up to heaven after his resurrection, he commanded his followers, "[G]o and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, and teaching them to obey everything I have commanded you..."  (Matthew 28:19, 20).  Christians focus most of their efforts to fulfill this command on evangelism, sharing the gospel of Jesus Christ--his atoning sacrifice to bring people into relationship with God--with unbelievers.  This element of obedience is extremely important, but it is only partial obedience.  Teaching people to <i>believe</i> in Jesus isn't enough; we must also to teach them to do what he said.  As James says,

<i>"What good is it, my brothers, if a man claims to have faith but has no deeds?  Can such a faith save him?  Suppose a brother or sister is without clothes and daily food.  If one of you says to him, 'Go, I wish you well; keep warm and well fed,' but does nothing about his physical needs, what good is it?  In the same way, faith by itself, if it is not accompanied by action, is dead"  (James 2:14-17).</i>

So what did Jesus say relating to environmentalism?  The Bible teaches that "[a] man reaps what he sows" (Galatians 6:7).  If we sow degradation of the land, we'll reap a polluted earth.  We must understand the interrelatedness of all things--what affects "the environment" affects us in the food we eat, the air we breathe, our ability to build homes, infrastructure, etc.  This isn't just about saving the whales and the polar bears; it's about making sure <i>humans</i> have a future on earth too.  How can we serve others by feeding and clothing them when we've done everything possible to destroy our means of making food and clothing? 

Loving our neighbor must include the generations that will come after us.  Christians pray for the salvation of our children and their children and beyond, even that they will know Jesus at a young age. People invest and store up money to give to their children and grandchildren.  But we seem to forget another very practical element of what the future generations need--a place to live.  Since we don't know the dates and times of Jesus' return, we should make sure our progeny <i>has</i> a place to live, breathe, and enjoy creation.  Let's not preemptively destroy the earth.  How will they breathe if we keep pumping air pollutants from coal-fired power plants and burning petroleum?  How will they get food if we deplete all the soil nutrients through poor farming practices and use of chemicals?  How will they get clean water if we poison every fresh water source through contaminated storm water runoff?  How will they stay healthy?  None of this may happen for 100+ years, but if Jesus waits to return and the end doesn't happen for a lot longer, <i>it will happen</i>.  We're so concerned with saving people's souls (and rightly so), but we appear hell-bent on killing their bodies.  Why would we do that?

<b>Green Living Is Part of Christian Stewardship</b>

In God's ecology death brings life:  "I tell you the truth, unless a kernel of wheat falls to the ground and dies, it remains only a single seed.  But if it dies, it produces many seeds" (John 12:24).  In the natural world, planting a seed in the ground brings much fruit after the crop matures.  Death also brings life when decaying organic matter works as fertilizer to nourish the soil and foster new growth.  Most importantly we see this law at work in the spiritual world--through Jesus' sacrifice we have been brought from death to life; we are created in God's image and saved by him in order to live a fruitful life in this age and the one to come.  Therefore, as his ambassadors, what we touch (human and inanimate) should become better, more whole, healed, and beautiful, not the opposite.  In doing this we glorify him and show the world we are his disciples by our love.

Living a green life won't save us, but it is a proper response to being saved by Jesus Christ.  We shouldn't place undue emphasis on being green at the expense of preaching the Gospel, but fulfilling the Creation Mandate <i>is</i> part of our call to steward what God has given us in this life. For we are "servants of Christ and ...those entrusted with the secret things of God.  Now it is required that those who have been given a trust must prove faithful"  (1 Corinthians 4:1, 2).  Let us prove faithful in <b>every</b> area.





<i>The Holy Bible, New International Version.</i>  Grand Rapids:  Zondervan, 2002.

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      <pubDate>Sun, 15 Jun 2008 20:12:33 -0700</pubDate>
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      <title>Composting</title>
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      <description><![CDATA[I now have a garden, complete with baby vegetable plants and herbs.  But before I had the garden, I had a compost pile.  I wanted to grow our garden sans chemicals and artificial fertilizers, so I read a book about composting and another book about organic gardening and companion planting.  What follows is a brief but hopefully thorough account of what composting involves.  Don't be intimidated by the length of this post.  The main thing you need to know about compost:  if you pile a bunch of organic matter, it <i>will</i> rot, whether or not you follow all of these tips.  Have fun with it!  All information is from <i>Let It Rot! The Gardener's Guide to Composting</i> by Stu Campbell.

<b>Compost is decomposed organic matter (leaves, manure, food scraps, etc.) used as fertilizer and to enrich the soil.</b>  It is usually made by piling organic matter in some kind of heap, layering different ingredients every two inches or so.  Finished compost is dark and crumbly, earthy smelling, not rotten and moldy.

Compost needs the following to work:
1) An energy source, or <b>carbon</b>
2) Protein, or <b>nitrogen</b>
3) <b>Oxygen</b>
4) <b>Moisture</b>

<b>Carbon</b> is dry, tough, fibrous plant materials like leaves, straw, sawdust, cornstalks, leftover food, and other bulky plant material from the yard or garden.

<b>Nitrogen</b> is the activator for the compost pile, the "digestive enzymes," the stuff that speeds the decomposition process.  Examples are:  manure (bat guano, cow, duck, goat, goose, hen, horse, pig, pigeon, rabbit, sheep, and turkey), green manure (buckwheat, rye, cornstalks, tomato vines, pea plants, thick rooted crops like kale), grass clippings, green vegetation, blood meal, kelp meal, alfalfa meal, bone meal, cottonseed meal, fish meal, hoof meal, horn meal, finished compost, and soil.  Nitrogenous materials are not as bulky and fibrous as carbon materials, and they should be added to the compost pile in smaller quantities than the latter.  If your compost doesn't have enough nitrogen, decomposition is slowed; but if there is too much of it, then the pile smells of ammonia gas.  Yuck.

<b>Oxygen</b> is the air we breathe.  And it is required by aerobes, the microorganisms that work to breakdown (eat) everything in the pile.  If you don't have enough oxygen, then the anaerobes take over, and they slow down decomposition by about 90%.  And they're smelly.  Aerobes, however, break down carbon into carbon dioxide and water, and they produce <i>energy</i> (heating up the pile).  Aerobes use this energy to grow faster, and therefore decompose more material.  They also excrete nutrients, like nitrogen, phosphorus, magnesium, etc.  "Aerating" your compost pile is therefore very important (i.e. turning the compost with a shovel or pitch fork) because it gets more oxygen into the pile.  Turning your pile more often means decreased decomposition time.  Aerobic activity in your pile is more desirable than anaerobic, but remember, both are breaking down matter in the pile.

<b>Moisture</b> comes from the sky or your garden hose.  If compost has too little moisture, decomposition is slowed.  But if there is too much moisture, the oxygen is forced out, suffocating the microorganisms.  Keep the moisture level between 45-50%.  Remember to moisten the compost pile as you build it, and it will stay moistened.

Insects are an important part to the composting process.  They are the bigger eaters compared to aerobes (bigger in size).  Earthworms signify good microbial activity.  They produce their weight in castings (their poo, which is nutrient rich) each day.  The only critters you don't really want near your compost are pets and raccoons and such.  But most likely, that won't be a problem.  No neighborhood cats or roaming squirrels have taken a second glance at my compost.


<b>FORMULA FOR GOOD COMPOST= 2 Parts Vegetable Matter (carbon materials)  + 1 Part Animal Matter (nitrogenous material)</b>


Compostable materials:
<b>Wood Ashes</b>  These are a good source of potash (potassium carbonate), and they are a pest deterrent.  You can also burn banana skins, lemon skins, cucumbers, and cocoa shells, which have a high phosphorus and potassium content.

<b>Feathers</b>  A good source of nitrogen!

<b>Garbage</b>  As in kitchen garbage.  Bury meat scraps deep in the compost pile, or don't use them.  Larger critters are looking for these especially.

<b>Grass Clippings</b>  If using green clippings, layer them into the compost in thin layers; these heat up the pile very quickly.  Or you can dry them out first and mix them with other dry absorbent materials (like dead leaves).

<b>Ground Stone / Shells</b>  Mineral rich.  Pulverize oyster, clam, and lobster shells.

<b>Hay and Straw</b>  Old is better.  Bacteria use up nitrogen decomposing these if the hay or straw is too new and in too large amounts.

<b>Hedge Trimmings</b>  Chop or shred these first.  Or if you add them in smaller amounts, leave them unchopped to allow good air penetration.

<b>Hops (brewery waste)</b>  No need to water your pile often if you use lots.

<b>Leaves</b>  Rotted leaves are the closest thing to pure humus.  Use thin layers if your leaves are whole.  5 parts leaves  + 1 part manure would make good compost.

<b>Leather Waste (dust)</b>  High in nitrogen and phosphorus.

<b>Newspaper</b>  Carbon source.  Use sparingly and/or shred as finely as possible.

<b>Peat Moss</b>  When mixed thoroughly, this is a good texturizer and conditioner.  Remember that it rots very slowly.

<b>Pine Needles</b>  Also a good texturizer, but don't use them as the main ingredient.  Very slow breakdown and <i>acidic</i> (which some soils need.  Contact your local Cooperative Extension Service Office for a soil testing kit to find out what kind of soil you have).

<b>Sawdust</b>  Work this in thin sprinklings, sandwiched  between manure.  Softwood breaks down slower than hardwood.  And weathered wood is better.

<b>Seaweed and Kelp</b>  Potassium!  Not to mention boron, iodine, calcium, magnesium, sodium, and other trace elements.  Also a good insulator in winter (as a thick blanket overtop).

<b>Sod</b>  Another good insulator.  Adds loam and organic matter to the pile.

<b>Weeds</b>  Be careful putting these into your compost, because you need sufficient heating to kill the seeds.  Avoid them if your pile doesn't get hot enough.


<b>Chop up</b> stubborn materials like:  corncobs, apple pomace, citrus rinds, cotton stalks, sugar cane leaves, palm fronds, cornstalks, peanut hulls, walnut, almond and pecan shells, thorny things ("they can bite you later").

<b>Avoid</b>:  mud, sand, gravel, coal, charcoal, glossy colored paper (unless shredded), diseased plants, non-biodegradable items, pet litter, sludge (human waste), and toxic chemicals.


Composting Methods:
<b>Classic Three Pile Method</b>  Set up a pile for each of the following:  newly decomposing materials, "cooking" compost, and finished compost.  The size of each pile shouldn't exceed about 3 feet square or high.  And they can be constructed as independent piles, in a wooden frame (like with chicken wire sides to allow sufficient aeration), or in plastic drums you can buy for composting.  My piles are just free standing next to the garden.  The drum method keeps everything contained easily, but they seem difficult to keep aerated.

<b>FAST Composting: The University of California Method</b>
1) <i>Chop or shred</i> to increase surface area of materials.
2) <i>Blend</i> nitrogenous activators throughly with carbonaceous material (like in a "layer cake").
3) <i>Frequently turn</i> the compost, every three days at least, to improve aeration and expose all materials to heat at the center of the pile.

This is the composting method I've adopted, and it has worked well.  You can have finished compost in just a couple of weeks (it takes months if you don't turn it very much).


<b>When To Add Compost</b>  <i>Partially decomposed</i> compost can be mixed into the earth before planting a garden to help loosen clay soils, and it is good in warm climates where decomposition is more rapid.  <i>Well decomposed</i> compost should be mixed in when planting seeds, plants, or added on top of the garden; it helps sandy soils retain water and moisture and is good in cool climates.

<b>Compost Tea</b> is a good boost of nutrients to your plants.  Mix 1 part compost to 5 parts water and stir several times.  Let sit for several days, and then use it to water the garden.  It is especially good for new transplants, house plants, and new seedlings.]]></description>
      <pubDate>Fri, 30 May 2008 21:11:31 -0700</pubDate>
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      <title>Naturo-beauty</title>
      <link>http://virb.com/mandy/posts/text/620477</link>
      <description><![CDATA[Being instilled with a holistic appreciation of life, I like to do things because they are GOOD, in every sense of the word.  Here are common toxins I have discovered that are in most beauty products we use AND the natural alternatives that I am using.

TOXINS
(visit <a href="http://www.alphazelle.com/big12.html">The Major Ingredients to Avoid</a> and <a href="http://cosmeticdatabase.com">Cosmetic Database</a> for more information on these toxins and what they're linked to.)

Propylene, Ethylene, and Butylene Glycol
Sodium Lauryl Sulphate (SLS) and Sodium Laureth Sulphate (SLES)
DEA (diethanolamine), MEA (monoethanolamine), and TEA (triethanolamine)
Polyethylene Glycol (PEG)
Sodium Hydroxide
Triclosan
DMDM and Urea (Imidazolidnyl)
Parabens
Alcohol, Isopropyl (SD-40)
Mineral Oil
FD&C Color Pigments
Fragrances


HEALTHY OPTIONS I'M USING
(Also visit <a href="http://cosmeticdatabase.com">Cosmetic Database</a> to see ingredients in these and why they're better.  All products can be found at Whole Foods or <a href="http://www.amazon.com">Amazon</a>)

<a href="http://www.amazon.com/Burts-Bees-Orange-Essence-Cleanser/dp/B000OFJ7FK/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&s=hpc&qid=1210951203&sr=1-2">Burt's Bees Orange Essence Facial Cleanser</a>  Contrary to popular thought, using vegetable oils on your skin doesn't promote oiliness, at least not on mine (hair can be a different story, though).  This is a very gentle cleanser, and doesn't strip moisture from your skin.

<a href="http://www.amazon.com/Earth-Science-Almond-Aloe-Fragrance-Free-Moisturizer/dp/B000F8K8CW/ref=sr_1_4?ie=UTF8&s=hpc&qid=1210950618&sr=1-4">Earth Science Almond-Aloe Fragrance-Free Moisturizer</a>  For the face.

<a href="http://www.amazon.com/Dr-Bronner-Organic-Castile-Peppermint/dp/B00012NDTW/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&s=hpc&qid=1210952711&sr=1-1">Dr. Bronner's Magic 18-in-1 Hemp Peppermint Pure-Castile (Liquid) Soap Made with Organic Oils</a>  This is literally my shampoo, conditioner, hair product, and body wash.  It's amazing.  I get out of the shower, blow dry my hair, and I'm ready to go.  If it feels a little too oily, I'll work some baby powder in with my hands.  Seriously, this is hair utopia; and for those who know me well, that is saying ALOT.

<a href="http://www.amazon.com/JOJOBA-OIL-16-NOW-FOODS/dp/B0014UHACQ/ref=sr_1_3?ie=UTF8&s=hpc&qid=1210950108&sr=1-3">NOW Foods Jojoba Oil</a>  I use this instead of body lotion.  It holds moisture in SO much better.  It also works well as a facial moisturizer and makeup remover, but I don't use it before I put on makeup for that reason.

<a href="http://www.amazon.com/Natures-Gate-Natural-Toothpaste-6-Ounce/dp/B000FTOC0U/ref=sr_1_9?ie=UTF8&s=hpc&qid=1210949549&sr=1-9">Nature's Gate Natural Toothpaste, Herbal Creme de Mint</a>  Baking soda to the rescue, yet again.

<a href="http://www.bareminerals.com/on/demandware.store/Sites-BareMinerals-Site/default/Default-Start?CMP=KNC-GPS-Brand">bareMinerals    Makeup</a>  This is the FIRST makeup I've ever used that doesn't disappear midday.  It's very light and happy feeling :)

I've also started using Preserve by Recycline <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Recyclable-Razor-triple-blade-cartridges/dp/B000MRXN00/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&s=hpc&qid=1210951654&sr=1-2">razors</a> and <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Preserve-Toothbrush-Soft/dp/B000MRYNXG/ref=sr_1_10?ie=UTF8&s=hpc&qid=1210951873&sr=1-10">toothbrushes</a>.  They are 100% recycled and recyclable.  And check out these chlorine free, organic cotton feminine products by <a href="http://www.amazon.com/s/ref=nb_ss_hpc?url=search-alias%3Dhpc&field-keywords=natracare&x=0&y=0">natracare</a> and <a href="http://www.amazon.com/s/ref=nb_ss_hpc?url=search-alias%3Dhpc&field-keywords=seventh generation tampons&x=0&y=0">Seventh Generation</a>.]]></description>
      <pubDate>Fri, 16 May 2008 11:48:47 -0700</pubDate>
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      <title>Simple, Green Strategies</title>
      <link>http://virb.com/mandy/posts/text/568705</link>
      <description><![CDATA[As opposed to Simple Green strategies.  Which I just discovered has had non-toxic, biodegradable cleaning products on the market for over 30 years.  I mean, duh, it's in the name, right?  Anyway, here are some things I've implemented at our house.

Did you know that distilled white vinegar and baking soda will clean virtually everything you need them to?  They're cheap, non-toxic, biodegradable, disinfecting awesomeness.  The vinegar smell doesn't linger, and your house sparkles.  Here's what I do:

For all purpose cleaner / disinfectant:  fill a spray bottle with 1/2 water, 1/2 distilled white vinegar, and a squirt of liquid dish soap, then shake it all together.  Spray and wipe on counter and table tops.  Spray and wipe to clean mirrors and glass.  Spray and wipe in the bathroom to clean your toilet, sink, and shower.

Or try this mixture in the bathroom:  spray or pour undiluted distilled white vinegar in the bathtub and scrub with an abrasive sponge to get things sparkling.  You can also pour baking soda in the tub before or after the vinegar, watch it fizz, then start scrubbing.  I'd wear rubber gloves, especially for those with sensitive skin.  The vinegar won't do any damage; it just might sting a bit.  You can also pour undiluted distilled white vinegar in the toilet, follow with baking soda, then scrub with a toilet brush.  The baking soda isn't mandatory, but it's a good, gentle abrasive.  Do the same on the sink.

For floors:  fill the sink with 1/2 cup to a cup of distilled white vinegar, a couple of squirts of liquid dish soap, and at least half a sink-full of water.  Mix it up, and use to mop your floors.  Safe for linoleum, wood, stone, marble, concrete, whathaveyou.  I read that you can also add olive oil to this mixture and use as a furniture polish.

For laundry:  add 1/4 to one cup of distilled white vinegar to your laundry to whiten whites.  It's also good to brighten colors, I have read; but I haven't tried it yet.  I really like Arm & Hammer's laundry detergent (free and clear of dyes and fragrances)--it's cheaper than all the other green brands (like Method and Seventh Generation) and does a fantastic job of cleaning clothes.

Baking soda works to absorb odors, so it's good to sprinkle on the floor and then vacuum up if you've had a pet accident.

See the following websites for further green education and cleaning strategies:
www.seventhgeneration.com*
www.thegreenguide.com*
www.armandhammer.com
www.simplegreen.com


*Seventh Generation's website is the MOST informative resource I have found for learning why going green in our homes is important.  National Geographic's Green Guide is also a wonderful resource, but you have to subscribe online or in print to get the full benefit.]]></description>
      <pubDate>Tue, 15 Apr 2008 16:19:19 -0700</pubDate>
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      <title>Turning Green</title>
      <link>http://virb.com/mandy/posts/text/565580</link>
      <description><![CDATA[I began a journey, a long, long time ago, and I'm really beginning to understand where it's taking me now.  That is to say, alot of things I've been absorbing since I was a little girl are beginning to make sense; I'm seeing how I want to implement them in my life and in my home.  Things like watching my Grandmacita grow tomatoes and roses and plants innumerable in her front and back yards.  Helping my mom plant snap dragons and pansies in our yard.  Growing radishes, onions, and potatoes with my Dad in east Texas.  My fascination with raking leaves as a young girl.  Observing my grandmother save twisty ties and rubber bands in jars.  Knowing that she woke up at like 5 o'clock in the morning to make a days worth of food for all of her children and grandchildren to eat.  Taking handfuls of vitamins from my homeopathic mother.  Only being allowed to eat one coke a week, and virtually never candy.

Then there was that class I took in college, Global Environmental Problems.  It opened my eyes to the serious potential of global warming and other man-made environmental issues.  There I met Allison, who literally rode her bike everywhere (in Texas, which is a feat) because she didn't want to pollute the city she lived in by driving a car.  After college, I worked for a non-profit in Dallas that was raising money to redevelop the Trinity River.  I took trips to the south side of town and saw city blocks upon city blocks of rusted out cars in auto dumps, and also what a capped landfill looks like--a huge green grassy hill surrounded by a chain linked fence with barbed wire on top of it.  A place that can't be built on or turned into a park, for God knows how long, because as soon as someone punctures the soil, toxic waste spills out and contaminates everything.

Then I started to get sick.  Starting in August 2007 (at the ripe age of 27) I had a series of allergic reactions to I didn't know what that were making me MISERABLE.  So I started reading up on the ingredients in every lotion, body wash, shampoo, shave gel, and any other cosmetic I was using.  I was on a hunt to rid my body of any potential toxin and only to put in or on it what was totally natural and good.  As my mother has said, "If you don't want to eat it, don't put it on your body."

And so, my husband and I are going green.  Conveniently, and cliche-y, when everyone else is too.  But I hope to do much good in the process.  I want our home, from the household and personal cleaning products we use to the food we eat to the waste we put out, to be as earth-friendly as we can make it.  Not because it's the hip thing to do, not because it makes us look good or righteous or whatever, but because it is the RIGHT thing to do.  I see this as a stewardship issue.  In the beginning, God told man to "fill the earth and subdue it"; he took him and "put him in the Garden of Eden to work it and take care of it" (Genesis 1:28, 2:15).  In the Industrial and Post-industrial ages, I think we've done a pretty crappy job of taking care of our planet.  And I want to change the way I live.

Stay posted for more green info.  It'll be coming in a steady-ish stream.]]></description>
      <pubDate>Sun, 13 Apr 2008 20:13:52 -0700</pubDate>
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      <title>Thermodynamics</title>
      <link>http://virb.com/mandy/posts/text/560481</link>
      <description><![CDATA["I consider that our present sufferings are not worth comparing with the glory that will be revealed in us.  The creation waits in eager expectation for the sons of God to be revealed.  For the creation was subjected to frustration, not by its own choice, but by the will of the one who subjected it, in hope that the creation itself will be liberated from its bondage to decay and brought into the glorious freedom of the children of God"  (Romans 8:18-21).

So what happens if creation isn't bonded to decay?  After The Fall, part of the curse is that the ground "will produce thorns and thistles" and we'll eat its fruit "by the sweat of [our] brow" until we die  (Genesis 3:17-19).  That is the Second Law of Thermodynamics--a very important scientific law that dictates the way our universe works, states that order tends to disorder; entropy will overtake the physical world no matter what; if you build something, it will fall apart.  That's why we have to work, to till the soil, plant, water, pull weeds, kill pests...  Fix roofs.  Make our beds.  Vacuum the floor.  Feed ourselves.  Things don't spontaneously get better.  We have to work to make that happen.  We partner in the life-cycle by tending our garden (be that an actual garden, or whatever your job is).  And God does his part:  nature takes its course, the plants grow, and we get to harvest.

So again, what happens if creation isn't bonded to decay?   We are promised in Romans that "glory... will be revealed in us", that we are waiting "eagerly for our adoptions as sons, the redemption of our bodies.  For in this hope we were saved"  (Romans 8:23, 24a).  It is through this redemption, then, that the creation will be liberated.  So what will that look like?  If creation doesn't decay, what will happen?

I wonder if things will spontaneously burst into beautiful growth.  I've heard people say that there will still be work in Heaven, but it won't be "toil" (Genesis 3:17).  Will it just be harvest?  Will we just walk into the garden and pick fruits and flowers to our hearts content?  Sharing our blessings with the other blessed in the afterlife?

I was in a class once where we studied Tolkien's Middle Earth and spent a good amount of time reading The Silmarillion, the tales about how Middle Earth was created.  It's very similar to the Biblical creation story:  Iluvatar (the God-figure) makes the Ainur (angel-types), one of them falls (Morgoth) and makes it his mission to corrupt Middle Earth and the Children of Iluvatar (Elves and Men), etc.  Someone posed the question of why Tolkien caused Morgoth to fall, why the corruption had to exist at all?  Why couldn't he have written a story totally set in the undying lands, where everything was perfect?  Another student answered that it's because there must be evil, it makes the story more interesting, relatable.  Perfection is boring.  I think human minds cannot fathom perfection.  We can't associate with total redemption; it doesn't make sense to us.

The arc of the story of our Earth includes decay, entropy.  So then, won't creation's redemption be fascinating?  Won't it be a miracle?  Won't perfection afterwards be the coolest thing ever?  I think so.
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      <pubDate>Thu, 10 Apr 2008 15:46:51 -0700</pubDate>
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      <title>Random Life Updates</title>
      <link>http://virb.com/mandy/posts/text/257531</link>
      <description><![CDATA[Today has been a quiet one, except for a jaunt down to Newbury Street for a haircut.  Tonight Joshua and I will go see <i>310 to Yuma</i> and eat at a lovely restaurant near our old digs, Fireplace.  Seems like the perfect night for a glass of red wine and jazzy music.  October in Boston is, thus far, a case study in global warming--it's been in the upper 70's and 80's, which the natives tell me is completely not normal.  I hope I do need to purchase some ridiculously warm boots and an ugly new coat, really just because it's what I've been preparing myself for (and of course because getting new clothes is fun).  But we'll see.  No sense in doing that before the weather actually shows me it's going to GET cold.

I have been making some clothes the last couple of days, but I'm not sure that I like what I'm making.  Joshua assures me it's a process, and I'll get better.  Maybe leaving them on the shelf a few days will give me new vision for further alteration, or I'll just get rid of them.  Again, we'll see.

My Dad has finally put some pictures up on his Flickr account!  He's quite a good photographer, though he'd never say that.  <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/8624849@N07/">Go be his friend</a>.

I'm going back to Big D next week for a few days to be with family and friends, and to attend my sister's performance at <a href="http://www.hob.com/tickets/searchresults.asp?venue=House%20of%20Blues%20Dallas">Common Heart Dallas 2007</a>.  She rocks.]]></description>
      <pubDate>Fri, 05 Oct 2007 19:07:51 -0700</pubDate>
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      <title>New Casa</title>
      <link>http://virb.com/mandy/posts/text/218703</link>
      <description><![CDATA[We moved into our new apartment two Friday's ago, before the mad-Boston-rush of new tenants on Saturday September 1st.  Adios Apartment 33, HELLO APARTMENT 4!!

Ladies and gentlemen, Apartment 4 is a whopping 900 square feet (more than double the size of our last two abodes) in a beautifully quiet area of Brighton near Boston College.  Oh, we get the requisite number of passing students, outside the building, but I have yet to see *or hear* any inside the building.  This is delightful.  It's not that we don't like students, because we do.  It's just that since Joshua and I are no longer students, we don't feel the need to live among them.  No, we're young professionals living among young professionals.

Wood floors, lots of windows with fantastic views of famed New England foliage, a kitchen WITH a breakfast nook, a living room that's a totally different room from the bedroom...  It's lovely.  AND our furniture finally arrives from storage in Dallas tomorrow!!  I have moved four times in the last three months and greatly look forward to feeling settled.  No more living out of cardboard boxes.  No, this place has closets.  No more eating off of plastic plates with plastic utensils, because I'll have ALL of my dishes!  This is the moment I've been waiting for since I was a little girl--the chance to decorate my own home.  No moms or roommates chiming in their opinions.  Although I will have my extremely-aesthetically-opinionated husband to deal with, but he's a piece of cake.

Pictures to follow.]]></description>
      <pubDate>Tue, 11 Sep 2007 20:03:47 -0700</pubDate>
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      <title>The Governmental Side of Moving to a New State</title>
      <link>http://virb.com/mandy/posts/text/181575</link>
      <description><![CDATA[Registering your vehicle.  Insuring your car.  Getting a new Driver's License.  Not to mention the newly-wifed phenomenon of changing your name on ALL official documents.  These are the issues that hang over our heads.

Today, we go to the Department of Motor Vehicles.  Well, we thought we were going there.  But being that Massachusetts doesn't seem to have a website that tells you where the nearest DMV is AND what you need to bring in order to accomplish the aforementioned duties, we stumble across another "unofficial" website that gives all the necessary document information and a peculiar DMV address.  Southie.  It said the DMV was in Southie.  Not thinking to crosscheck this information with the "official" site, we googlemap it and leave optimistically from our Brighton apartment.

Only one wrong turn later, we arrive at the prescribed location to find an H&R Block and a gentleman saying the real DMV is at 630 Washington Street downtown.  I won't go into the fact that there shouldn't BE two 630 Washington Streets in the same city.  So we think, "We got a tour of Southie," and drive on an adventure through unknown streets with no map and find our way to Chinatown.  Drive around for 10-15 minutes to find a parking space and settle on a $10-15 parking lot.

We walk into the real Department of Motor Vehicles.  There are lots of people because it is exactly 12 noon.  The woman at the front desk (they've one-upped Texas here by even having a front desk) informs us that there are exactly 100 people in front of us to get new driver's licenses.  So we settle on just getting our vehicle registered.  We sit on a wooden bench among rows of wooden benches that remind me of those in front of every Cracker Barrel in the country and watch the announcement screen scrolling information in English and Chinese telling us about earthquakes in Peru and Japan, how the NFL is changing some key rules, and that we can donate our car to help children with life-threatening illnesses.  There are only about 10 names ahead of us in the A-group, all going to the same lady at desk number 7.  The automated voice calls a new number every 4 or 5 minutes (again, over-shadowing my Texas experiences by having a clear-speaking voice over an intercom system).

"A-199" the pleasant female robot voice calls.  We walk to desk number 7.  The woman informs us that they only take cash and check, and that it costs $86.00 to register our vehicle.  Luckily they have an ATM machine across the hall (again, good idea Boston).  So Joshua goes to get the money while I continue the registration process with the lady at desk number 7.  Except the only document I've ever had as my vehicle title is apparently a photocopy.  And we have no acceptable insurance.
"This is my proof of insurance, right here," I tell the woman, showing her our Farmer's Insurance form.  
"No this is what your proof of insurance looks like," she says to me holding up a piece of paper.  "You have to have Massachusetts insurance."
"Do I have to have my vehicle registered in Massachusetts to get insurance?" I ask, challenging her.
"No," she says.
"Do I have to have a Massachusetts license to get Massachusetts insurance?"  I guess I am trying to pick a fight.  By this point Joshua walks up.  He's the most patient person I have ever met.  I, on the other hand, have almost no tolerance for what I consider other people's stupidity.  The lady at desk number 7 is now my representative for Massachusetts bureaucratic stupidity.  But I try to remain professional.

She starts telling me all the things I really need to register my vehicle in Massachusetts.  She's writing it down.  I can't hear her.  Not that she isn't speaking clearly, it's just that my frustration and anger are completely muffling her voice.  Joshua, happily, is standing there making eye-contact with the woman as I ask her to repeat herself.  I put the paper in my bag and we leave.  I'm furious.

Now admittedly, I can overreact.  I don't like for things that CAN BE so logical to be illogical and stupid.  This process, so far, is completely illogical and stupid.  And having experienced similar confusion of document and place when making previous visits to government agencies, I feel the United States of America need to come up with a user friendly online explanation of what you need for these official visits and where you need to go.  It's not that hard.  They already have all the information.  It's just a matter of putting it in a place where the average American can find it, i.e. the internet.  Each state thus will be a much more livable place.]]></description>
      <pubDate>Fri, 17 Aug 2007 18:38:19 -0700</pubDate>
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      <title>Sometimes technology sucks</title>
      <link>http://virb.com/mandy/posts/text/169820</link>
      <description><![CDATA[Says the girl writing a blog.  I am doing this to vent some DEEP frustrations regarding my experience just now trying to create my own personal login for a chat program called Adium.  Because going back and reading what I have written makes me feel like I've accomplished something, created something useful with things that I love, words.  And I need to feel like I've accomplished something after having the last HOUR of my life sucked away by this stupid program that has no instructions.

It's a good idea, Adium.  Compatible with all kinds of chat programs:  AIM, Yahoo, MSN...  My husband's on iChat, my sister's on Yahoo, my friend in Seattle is on MSN.  A seeming chat paradise, right?  Until you actually try to install it.  This thing had, count em, ONE instruction.  Two if you count the part on their website that says "Click to Install Adium".  I did that.  I clicked.  It began installation.  Then a window came up (instruction #2) that showed a green duck ("Adium") with a hand over it, a blur, and the icon of the Applications folder.  There were also two other little images that showed folders with .txt after them.  Having experienced computers since the eighth grade (a few years before widespread internet) and owned a Mac since 2001, I have enough knowledge here to know I don't need those folders.  But I'm not a programmer or anything, so I DON'T know that the hand and blur represent ME moving the Adium icon over to the Applications folder.  Thank God I was already on iChat with my husband, or I wouldn't have gotten that far.

Then I had to make sure something called Growl was updating automatically.  I probably should've said this at the beginning:  I am not the kind of person who thinks that instructions are ignorable.  I was the kid who wouldn't start anything until the teacher told us how.  I  didn't make macaroni and cheese myself until I was at least 14 because I didn't want to get boiling water wrong.  Learning to experiment is exactly that, a learning process.  So when a computer gives me options regarding things I know nothing about, I am stonewalled.  I don't know how to proceed.  I could GUESS, but I don't want to do that unless it's absolutely necessary.  Again, iChat with Joshua Blankenship saves the day.

But to install myself as a user on this thing.  That's what made me cry.  There was a series of quasi-random guesses involving the File menu, Preferences, and a + sign.  I got that much right.  Joshua had to remind me I already had an AIM login and password.  So there, I'm in.  A user.  moblankenship.  But damn Adium to hell for not putting me on the freaking chat window when I actually want to chat!!  It showed Joshua's picture and name as Available!  I quit Adium.  I restarted it.  I deleted Joshua from it altogether.  I deleted another username he had.  I logged out of and quit iChat so I could restart and re-login to Adium.  Nothing.  No change.  I'm the only user who EXISTS on Adium, and it still shows Joshua.  Computers are STUPPPIIIIIDDDDDDDDD!!!!!!

I cried for a good ten minutes.  And my husband said he'd see what was wrong when he comes home.  The end.]]></description>
      <pubDate>Thu, 09 Aug 2007 15:27:35 -0700</pubDate>
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      <title>The Salon Hunt</title>
      <link>http://virb.com/mandy/posts/text/160090</link>
      <description><![CDATA[If I were stranded on a deserted island, the items I would need for survival are as follows:  food, clothing, shelter, hairstylist.  No seriously, it's THAT important.  I was overdue for a haircut by a technical 2 weeks (I have an every 8-weeks habit), but oh Lord, it was killing me.  My husband can attest.  I was not a happy girl.

Having gone to the same fabulous stylist for 13 years, I was not particularly looking forward to finding a new one in my new hometown.  Not that I didn't think Boston could provide a really good one; it's just that, as a friend's mom recently said, finding a good hairstylist is harder than finding a good doctor.

So I began internet research.  I picked three potential salons on Newbury Street (comparable to Rodeo Drive or Fifth Avenue.  I'm a hair snob).  I called Salon A.  I explained my dilemma to the receptionist, who kindly described a couple of their stylists whose profiles I had seen online.  She asked if I wanted to make an appointment.  I thanked her and said no, I was going to call a couple of other places and perhaps get back to her later.  She seemed confused.  I worried for the next couple of days and then abandoned the thought of going to Salon A because their website didn't work well and most of the stylists' work was summed up as "conservative".  I like edgy hair.

Moving onto Salon B:  they have a good website, show actual work (though mostly updos), describe each stylist's style and resume, and show pictures of the salon.  Internet research of Salon C yielded a fantastic website, one picture of the salon, very high prices ($125 and up), no descriptions of individual stylists, and potential hair modeling experiences (you get your hair cut for free if you get on the list and let them do whatever they want.  It's a great deal if you trust the stylist and don't mind sitting around for awhile).  Very chic website, but artistically, it seemed like a very rigid culture.  

After pondering for several days, I decided to call Salon B.  Again, I explained my dilemma to the receptionist, who kindly described one of the stylists whose profile interested me online.  Her name is Liz Leary.  She has been doing hair since she was 17, used to work at Salon C, and her "Rock and Roll Haircuts" have been featured on dailycandy.com, plus she has great hair.  The receptionist assured me that she was creative and intuitive, and that she cuts her (the receptionist's) hair, so of course she trusts her.  Feeling a match in my gut, I made an appointment.

I got my hair cut by Liz Leary yesterday.  This Cape Cod native, a mere 23 years old, knows her stuff.  She asked what I wanted to do with my hair, and I gave her a suggestion.  But then I asked her what SHE wanted to do with my hair.  She liked my idea and elaborated on it.  That made me feel good.  I asked about the salon culture at Salon B (creative freedom, good working atmosphere), why she left Salon C (yes, it is WAY rigid), what is Bumble and Bumble (by whom she has been partly trained), her family, what she likes in Boston, etc.  She is a very cool girl.

After leaving the salon, I was not two blocks down the road, on my way to Starbucks for a drink and lunch, when a very handsomely dressed black man smiled and stopped me.  "I like your style," he said, standing in his expensive gray suit.  "It's sophisticated.  Sophisticated and... simple."  I paused, smiled, and thanked him for the compliment.  Then I told him about the Sartorialist, a man who started a blog about street fashion in New York, later got hired by GQ, and now travels the world cataloguing street fashion.  He thanked me enthusiastically for the tip, and introduced himself as Michael.  "Mandy," I replied, shaking his hand.  I thanked him again for the compliment and went on my way to Starbucks.

I have definitely found my new hairstylist.]]></description>
      <pubDate>Thu, 02 Aug 2007 15:14:47 -0700</pubDate>
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      <title>Minihunes are mythical Hawaiian creatures similar to Leprechauns</title>
      <link>http://virb.com/mandy/posts/text/148583</link>
      <description><![CDATA[And that is not what I found on my excursion today.  Instead I found Minihane's Flower and Garden Shop on Washington Street, a little northwest of my current abode.  Today is the first day I've really explored the streets without my husband.  I know, I know, I've been in town three weeks, and I haven't left the house without Joshua except to go to the bank across the street (except one time I drove to a friend's house).  I'm a deliberate person.  I don't usually embark on something until I feel comfortable, and today I felt comfortable.

So, I decided to find the nearest Starbucks and to deposit the birthday check my Grandpa sent me.  But instead of going to the usual bank, I thought it might be interesting to find a different bank NEAR a Starbucks.  So, remembering my husband's love for Google Maps, I find addresses for the nearest caffeinated beverage depot and Citizens Bank and plug them in.  Success!  They're on the same street mere feet from one another.

En route to the aforementioned locations, I discover that I live in a basically adorable neighborhood.  Washington is a tree-covered street with brick apartment buildings and wooden houses on either side when you first journey north from Comm Ave.  Pretty soon you will come across a Jewish temple and the Our Lady of Fatima Shrine, but it's not till Washington makes a sharp curve west at Cambridge Street that it gets really charming.  There is the Green Briar Pub, a lovely English pub that I look forward with gusto to visiting, but most importantly Mandy and Joe's Restaurant and Delicatessen.  It seems Brighton has anticipated me.  There is also an Amanda's Flowers.  It seems they have been prophesying my arrival, perhaps for quite some time.

All of this is a mere mile or so from my current accommodations, and only 0.5 miles from where I will live in September and beyond.  Whereupon we will live across from the beautiful Evergreen Cemetery and the Chestnut Hill Reservoir (the cemetery is a particularly good omen, which I may someday explain.  I like them).  I'm happy we moved here.  I'm even happier that I am exploring.]]></description>
      <pubDate>Wed, 25 Jul 2007 16:57:13 -0700</pubDate>
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      <description><![CDATA[There is a man who sits on our stoop all day long almost every day who lives in our building.  His name is Harry.  He is our self-proclaimed "Stoop Keeper".  He is very kind, small, and tells bad jokes that are endearing.  He looked at me yesterday and told me that he went to see his doctor the other day, and the man told him that he was going to have to put Harry on some pills that he will have to take for the rest of his life.  When Harry told his daughter this with a hint of sadness in his voice, she reassured him that lots of people have to take pills for the rest of their lives.  Harry replied, "Yeah, but he only gave me three pills."  I laughed.  I like him.]]></description>
      <pubDate>Tue, 17 Jul 2007 13:01:33 -0700</pubDate>
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      <title>Joshua's Haircut</title>
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      <description><![CDATA[Some women enter marriage thinking their husbands are perfect, except for those few, ultimately insignificant, but you know, kind of important things they want to change about them.  Not me.  My husband is basically perfect  (excepting his inherent sin nature; but come on, that so rarely comes into play for either of us.  We're blessed).  We're both artists, I love his taste, and he loves mine.  We're great.  Except, well, yes, I did ask him to grow out his hair for me and keep it well-groomed for about a year.  He really wanted it that way, I was just encouraging him.  Right?

My husband and I had a very serious discussion after moving to Boston.  I think we had been here three days.  I wanted him to cut his hair, he reminded me that I was the one who cut it, I said I was used to making hair appointments not having my hairdresser call me to schedule an appointment, he said he could do that but ultimately he was fine with his hair no matter what it looked like...  I'm not sure if this is a somewhat familiar scenario for any other women out there.  I assume so.  Aesthetics are very important to me; I think I've been called a beauty glutton.  Joshua is an aesthete as well.  A very conscientious one.  I am so grateful God gave me a man with fantastic taste.  I only have problems with his aesthetic choices when they don't line up with mine.  This is rare.  So you can imagine what a jolt it is to my artistic system when it happens.  He would rather have a shaved head than have longish, punky, awesome hair.  I have been doing my own hair since I was seven.  I mean, my bangs in the 1980s were envied grade-wide.  Possibly even throughout lower and middle school, but I have no evidence to back this up.  So, it doesn't really resonate with me when my wonderful, fantastically creative husband tells me he doesn't really CARE what his hair looks like.  And worse, he'd rather shave it.  So, realizing we have a conflict, I think.  I pray.

Jesus speaks quickly.  What would I want Joshua to do if our positions were switched?  Would I want him to impose his aesthetic choices on me or let me express my own creativity?  Feeling this is such a stupid thing to have conflict over, but somewhere in the core of me understanding that I'm being totally selfish, I humble myself and tell him he can shave his head if he wants to.  Or I'll cut his hair the way I want it to be.  But please make a decision tomorrow.  I can't take the jumbled afro anymore.  He promised.

We woke up the next day, and Joshua shaved his head.  He looked so happy, said he felt like himself again.  I hadn't realized that he didn't feel like himself before, but now he looked so relieved, so at home with himself.  This makes me happy.  And I think my opinion has changed--he looks equally awesome with a buzz.  And fortunately for both of us, our opinions regarding hair length can rapidly change from season to season.  He may want to grow it out again in the fall.  It doesn't take that long.  Me, on the other hand, if I want to grow it out, I have to be committed.

For the picture, go to my flickr as seen on my Virb profile.


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      <pubDate>Mon, 09 Jul 2007 15:20:26 -0700</pubDate>
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