Lessons of the day (things I've learnt along my journey I call life):

Never take for granted those who love you, as you never know how long they may be around for.......these people are the ones who pick you up when you fall, they support you, they stand beside you, and they love you unconditionally! I always say life without music does not exist....but also life without these certain rare and few people does not exist either....these are my elements I need to live and prosper!

They say sometimes you don't realize what you had till it's gone......well sometimes you don't realize what you want till it's there.......(think about that one)! I for one am not cursed by the first part of this quote, as I always know what I have when I have it, I never take it for granted, and I don't let it go if it's worth keeping!! There are times where this has occurred......for instance when you least expect to find love, or you are set against it (as you've been badly hurt and you decide you want/need a break).....then it hits you like a slap to the face, and even though you pre-decided you didn't want this........it finds you, and you then realize it is what you want!!

I've also learned today that "I told ya so" is not a thing many people like to hear.......but sometimes they just need to hear it no matter how much it may hurt them! Don't poor your heart out to me about how wrong you were, how big of a mistake that 'other' girl was, how lonely you are now, how much you wish we could talk again, how lonely you are in your new City, new Province and how you have no friends.........and how much you screwed up, and miss me, and yada ya blah, blah.......then not expect me to say "told you so".....cuz that is a prime time example of when I WILL do so.....especially if you hurt me, I will love to make you feel some of your own sting thrown back at you.........immature on my part?? Maybe a little......but I am a woman, and we do love to get some retaliation on those men who hurt us......I won't go to extremes to make any points (like I have in the past) but if the opportunity presents itself then I am all in to rub it in a bit!!

The above lessons are from today...........

But I've also learnt a few other things recently..........

Giving people (who show they are worth it and you better be sure they show that they are worthy) second chances can be a risk depending what is on the line, so if the gain isn't worth the risk do not cross the line......think it through and if you believe it is worth the risk then pur yourself out there and be prepared for the unexpected (good or bad), but make sure you never lose yourself along the way!

Learning to be understanding, rational, calm, and not jump the gun or analyze little things has been a problem of my past..........some how....possibly with life experiences I've managed to over come those problems I used to possess......and I find the best way to over come those problems has been learning to not be afraid to talk or speak when you find yourself questioning things in you head! Men and Women definately come from two totally different worlds, and as a woman I must learn to approach the male brain in a non-woman thinking state which I think I am starting to really grasp a hold of lately! In all relationships there is a give and take.......you must give and you must take and never over look anyone else's feelings/needs or wants for your own! It's a form of being selfless that you must have at times, give and you shall receive! This isn't a tug of war, it's just a matter of having mutual respect for one another.......once you have this, all will fly smoothly along. But you must be able to respect yourself firstly.......if one can respect thy self then they are hopeless!

Well this is it for today......

I've been in a very 'write write write' mood lately......

Time to do some house work.......

Peace out for now......

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