hi there ho there

The weirdest sensation has come over both my BF and I lately. It’s that we think of the future, his kids, his family and I think of my sisters and my mom and we both think of each other, too. I ...

greek etymology

Dictionary: dys

Where two worlds collide.

As I was talking to someone on AIM, it occurred to me that I'm in the middle of two worlds that are so similar and yet so different. That is until someone takes a closer look. Take for example, how a ...

Oh joy

Oh joy, this will be my first week of just bartending! I'm being sarcastic only because my sales plummeted last weekend. In the end it's all about how much more in tips will I make than serving the dr...

Melon Collie and Infinite Sadness

Recently (past month or so) my S.O. and I had went from Honeymoon stage and I mean it was even grossing me out a little. To what I called a faux-ship. Friday I maybe sorta broke things off at work .. ...

everything I know I learned from...

Recently some friends from Red Stick (baton rouuuuuge), noted that sexy can be learned from Depeche Mode. True that, yo. But for me, a Spanish Harlem mix (part italian by marriage and part latina) I c...

Did hell freeze over and swallow NYC?

Did any of you hear about our heatwave? I went to the beach in April... when it was like 85 degrees out. And then this past week or so, highs in the 99's and 100's with total humidity. Goodness gracio...

goodbye

So I took the plunge. bought a new iPhone and just cancelled my helio acct. Not surprisingly, they were really quick. I expected to be on hold for a while. so now I try to use this silly virtual keyb...

the pain men fear

So isn't it funny that the male equivalent to childbirth would be passing kidney stones? Well I think it's funnier when you think of women like myself who don't want to have kids - b.c of the pain - a...

Just when you think it’s all done.

On Sunday I had a small epiphany. After that I genuinely felt a weight lifted, as if I could then move on past all sorts of things. And then Monday comes along and my cobartender and I talked about so...

Striped Tee Alert!! (May be too hipster for your eyes...)

Close the oven door.

Yesterday's weather was weird. Weird enough to share with you. in the sun, my skin was frying. In the shade there was no relief. A warm, almost HOT air would blow by and depending on its direction it ...

Not quite dead

Yes, this year.And now watch this..



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KILL THE WABBIT....

Kill the waaaabbit. January 14, 2008 at 6:30. And either Carmen or The Barber of Seville. I can't WAIT to show up with a helmet, horns and a carrot with the leaf still attached. KILL THE WABBIT!...

S. O. S.

Well it's just another day in the wonderful - wait - NYC SUCKS. The people are relentless, under-served and SOL today. because a tropical storm (yeah, we're not even discussing Hurricanes) came throug...

Oh and one more thing...

My RAZR died. According to several forum posts, it's common. I just spent 40 bucks and an hour on the phone with AT&T tech to get it unlocked (even though it says CINGULAR on the back) and to get a ne...

One thing before you leave....

I'm sighing deeply right now. And I know I've written this before, but I hate BEING a doormat -NO- I hate people THINKING I'm a doormat. Unfortunately I try to be all super super nice and act like I d...

To-Do List, revised, long-term.

*Updated 07-18-2007*Go back to school (semi check)*Buy car for Miami *Invest savings (check)*Do One Night of Fire in NYC*Go to Burning Man 2008 *Donate old furniture and clothes (semi check) *Move to ...

Things to say to a potential mate..

Recently an old ex told me that he met up with an old co-worker and this old co-worker thought that my ex and I were still together. We both chuckled but then I took things too far. It was too easy to...

Step into my shoes

Some may call us oreo's or whatever but I feel that I straddle that fine line between minority (at 40%+ of the nation's population?) and outcast among Latinos. It's not just in my head, I know this no...