The Intro

I don't know what i am starting this blog for, the purpose nor the intent.Having been through a very happy as well as a very painful life, i now know what pain is at its extreme as well as happiness. Still I seek not for trivial things such as money or pleasure or other sorts of worldly entities or emotions with no lasting value. But for the answer to a simple question that's been ravaging the human races' intellects, " What is life, its purpose,its meaning ?". Which i dare not say, but painfully knows that it will be something i won't find untill the life has left my ever rotting flesh. Still i try to see life in all its beauty, not only in mine but in others also.
I seek an emotion that been long lost in humanitys race for power. I seek the true power of a human being, the ability to love. Not just love, but True Love. It might seem kind of childish and crazy. But if one was to delve into the pool of human emotion, he would find that Love is and was and will always and has always been the origin of all emotions. Emotions like hatred, anger, jealousy, pain, lust, the epitome of anger- Fury,.. etc are all a form of the base emotion love. The ability to love has always been thought of as a weakness, but as far as i've seen it is not a weakness but the most powerful gift God has given us.

Its been a long time since my last post and I really know what time is in the blogging world. But lets face it, Time is not always in our hands The intro i gave earlier is a totality of my research of my life as well as life as a whole.

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Speaking the Truth

There has always been a problem with speaking the truth of something to people, people whom you love and to people whom you respect. Whereas its always easy to tell a lie to a person who is not close to you or you have just met. Truth, as I've found out can be one of the hardest things to handle in life. The fact being that sometimes, truth can be lies is something entirely not acceptable to some people. What we percieve to be true is to US the truth, whereas for someone it might be a big white lie. This being the fact of life has always haunted me for when I talk, the things that come out of my mouth can be entirely true or entirely wrong. Another of these so called "true lies" as I call it, is when it comes to life or death situations. Where telling the truth can be devastating for someones life. For me, telling the truth if it is a matter of MY life or death is always simple. I'd choose death before I tell a lie for my own gain. But when it comes to someone elses life...... its just .... hard. Just think about it. The fact of you telling the truth about a person could lead in some way or another to his death. If thats the case, would you rather lie or let him be killed.

Life can be harder than you think it is. Some people go as far as to say that their life is a road made of roses. and that it ultimately leads to a big garden full of life and joy. But turn around and look back for a second. Not at yourself, but at others. You will realize there is more suffering in this world than happiness. But ultimately the question will be, where is the Peace, where is the truth and what are we living for ?????? But as life has always been and it will always be, there will always be a small flickering light of happiness in the vast darkness. enough to last a lifetime. That light my friends is for you and only YOU to find out and share. Whereas for me, my light is already found by me. Not inside me, but around me. In people that I love and care for and they ...in turn for me.

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SUCCESS OR FAILURE: Which one will YOU want?

Have anyone ever thought about success and failure OUT-OF-THE-BOX ?. Everybody thinks that success is the result of something we have done right in the right way. And Failure being that of something we should have done right, but came out wrong. Success or failure as the world thinks are the by-products of human inputs in the right or wrong proportions. Inputs for success is said to be hard work, commitment, talent and other such things whereas failure results in the absence of such inputs. These are true to and extent.
Failure almost always results in humiliation, inadequacy, insecurities and instability of our sensitive mind. While Success leads to admiration, adoration, acceptance and to a certain degree, fame. The greater the degree of success, the greater the fame.

What I am trying to tell you all through this is that, the way in which we as people see things in life has become so narrow that to a certain point it has become, blind or might I say, even cruel.
We as people need to see someting for not just what it is, but something more. There is always more to everything that we see around us. Take for example something as simple and common as water. We ALL know about water is that it sustains life on this planet (also air). We can't live without water. No living thing can. But how many of you know that water is what which holds this planet together. How many of you know that water is the thing which keeps the ground below us from falling apart. How many of US know that water is the thing or the only substance thats keeping this planet habitable. Likewise, things in life are always seen by us as just the way they are presented to us. In my opinion, Narrow, Meaningless and Insignificant.

Now lets get back to our problem. What I've found out is that success is very much an implied result of failure as is Failure in relation to success.Just look back into you your life. Look back to the days when you were a teenager at school. Take for example, you were taking your math classes. You start off with a new chapter. You and most of you friends start off with giving wrong answers to most of the questions given to you. But as you progress, you will start getting it correct. Why? Because you found where you went wrong. NOW, will it be right for me to say now that your failures led you to success.
As for failure, we will take the same scenario. You are have constantly been one of the top scorers in all your class. Then one day when the results for one of your test read - FAIL. You can't seem to think but wonder how this happened. But as you read on, you see that a minor carelessnes from your part caused this. So Folks, Success here lead to failure. You were so overconfident and sure of yourself that you thought failure was not a part of your life.

So the thing for all of us to know that is the simple fact that, everything good OR bad happens for a reason. Success for me has always been good and failures even better. Because, a failure shows me where I went wrong or what I was lacking. To rectify and to fill that gap. It made me look back and start from where I went wrong, to start anew, not for me to succeed but to be better, stronger and more than just what I used to be.

Don't be blinded by success nor be hammered down by failure.

And like someone once told me, " The past is like an iron mountain, immovable and resolute. But the future is like the perfect potter's clay which can be moulded into whatever you want it to be."

(And to all my friends who have taken their exams and are waithing for their results. Success is good, but if you fail... doing something stupid because of it is a sure sign of weakness and cowardice. Be strong and learn from it. Show the world that there is SO MUCH MORE to things that happen in life, be it good or bad. You might ask, "how the hack are YOU supposed to know how it feels like?". To tell you the truth, you have no IDEA how much I know it feels to be in your position. I've felt the epitome of success and the never-ending abyss of failure. Thats a story for some other time. Now go on and think about what I've just told you and be sure to write any question you might wanna ask in the comments column.)

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